A poignant and haunting memoir about war and its many victims, about conscience and faith, about suffering, healing, and the quest for peace.

One day in November 1965, Norman Morrison, a devout Quaker, immolated himself on the steps of the Pentagon as a protest against the Vietnam War. It was a terrible and defining moment of an era, one that marked the lives of many people—not least Morrison’s own family, who were left struggling to understand his action and to pick up the pieces of their lives. Now, Anne Morrison Welsh, recounts Norman’s story as well as her own journey, over a lifetime, to find acceptance, forgiveness, and recovery from life’s wounds. While many were appalled by Morrison’s action, others were deeply affected—among them, Secretary of Defense Robert McNamara, who later described Morrison’s death as one of the critical turning points in his life. Decades later, on a pilgrimage to Vietnam, Anne and her children complete a circle that brought them to terms, in a new way, with the mystery and meaning of that day in November.